Moms with drug problems get help..Ripped from the headlines of the Citizen Times..
Some moms get a hand in overcoming addiction
Unique residential program makes room for child careLeslie Boyd • July 12, 2009 12:15 AM
ASHEVILLE — Ten months ago, nothing in Eleanor Gibbons’ life was certain.
AdvertisementShe was drinking heavily and her family was fed up with her. She landed at the Neal Dobbins Center in Black Mountain for detoxification, and found out she was pregnant. The staff there referred Gibbons to the Mary Benson House, a yearlong recovery program for pregnant and postpartum women and their children up to age 5.
Mary Benson House is an arm of Sisters of Mercy Services. It has room for seven women and their children, and a long waiting list. It is the only such treatment house in Western North Carolina.
The house is named for an Asheville woman who, in her own recovery from addiction, reached out to others, working with 12-step and other recovery groups. She died in 1994.
The house, a rambling old Victorian in Montford, needs work on its kitchen, and Sisters of Mercy is working to raise money for a complete renovation. An aspiring Eagle Scout took on the drainage work in the backyard and built a small playground.
This is ‘real work’In the sitting room, Gibbons sat in a rocking chair feeding her 5-week-old daughter, Covey Grace. She is sober, looking for work as a certified nurse assistant and planning to go back to school for a degree in nursing.
“I have a degree in English literature,” Gibbons said. “But what that really means is that you have to go back to school for something more practical.”
Another thing..Moms don’t drink or smoke when you are pregnant…Hospitals and psych wards are filled with kids that didn’t develop right in the womb..Alcohol Fetal Syndrome and small oxygen deprived babies are a real problem..If you are doing any of these behaviors stop right now…You don’t want to sentence your child to a life of bad health , learning disabilities..or mental problems..It really can screw your kid up..no kidding..if you are thinking this won’t happen to you..you’re thinking is wrong..so stop… get help and quit…